The last time I posted here, I was recapping a mobile conference in Chicago, marveling at Foursquare check-ins, and had just crossed 40,000 tweets. Location Based Marketing for Dummies was fresh off the press. The iPhone was four years old. If you'd told me it would be fifteen years before my next post, I'm not sure I would've believed you — and I definitely wouldn't have guessed everything that would happen in between.
I've thought about dusting off this blog more times than I can count. Today I finally am. Rather than pretend the gap didn't happen, I figured the honest thing to do is catch you up. So here are five of the biggest things I've been up to since I last hit "publish."
1. I helped build something I'm really proud of at Real Chemistry.
For roughly fourteen years, I got to help grow the firm formerly known as W2O from a scrappy boutique into a genuine industry leader, eventually serving as its CMO. It's rare to get a front-row seat to that kind of arc, and rarer still to spend it alongside people you'd run through a wall for. Jim Weiss, who founded and chaired the company, became a mentor and a friend — so much so that he ended up writing the foreword to my book (more on that in a second). Fourteen years teaches you a lot. Mostly it taught me that the work is never really about the tech; it's about the humans doing it.
2. I started building on my own.
These days I run Aardwolf LLC, my own consultancy focusing on fractional CMO work for digital health clients and other healthcare-focused agencies. Going from "the guy with the corner office at a big firm" to "the guy figuring it out from scratch again" has been humbling in
the best way. There's nothing like starting something new to remind you what you actually know — and what you were just borrowing from the logo on your business card.
the best way. There's nothing like starting something new to remind you what you actually know — and what you were just borrowing from the logo on your business card.
Wired for Purpose: Why Humanity Is the Biggest Differentiator in a Digital World is the thing I've poured the most of myself into. The premise is simple and, I'd argue, more urgent every day: in a world racing to automate everything, the most valuable thing you can be is unmistakably human. It's built around a few ideas close to my heart — the Connector's Code, the Gratitude Engine, rational optimism, and what I call the three H's: humility, humanity, and hope. If the old *Citizen Marketer* had a grown-up thesis, this is it.
4. I became a creator — and rediscovered how much I love a good conversation.
I host the Reaching Higher Podcast, where I've had the absurd privilege of sitting down with everyone from Al Roker to founders, doctors, chefs, athletes, and musicians. I write a LinkedIn newsletter called The Connector's Code, including a series spotlighting interesting people I think you should know. And I've kept getting to stand on stages I never imagined — SXSW, CES, and, coming up this fall, a keynote at the Automotive AI Summit. Podcasting in particular taught me something I wrote a whole chapter about: how to actually listen. Turns out I had a lot of practice to do.
5. I started giving more of my time away.
Some of the most meaningful work of the last fifteen years hasn't paid a dime. I serve on the boards of the Tigerlily Foundation and Hiking My Feelings, and as a Bay Area advisory member for the
Kelly Brush Foundation. These organizations — supporting young women facing breast cancer, mental wellness through the outdoors, and people living with paralysis — have given me far more than I've given them. If midlife has a gift, it's the clarity about where your time is best spent.
Kelly Brush Foundation. These organizations — supporting young women facing breast cancer, mental wellness through the outdoors, and people living with paralysis — have given me far more than I've given them. If midlife has a gift, it's the clarity about where your time is best spent.
That's the short version of a long stretch. Kids grew up, a company grew up, and I'd like to think I did a little of that too.
I don't know exactly what this blog becomes from here, but I know I've missed it. Consider this me pulling up a chair again.
